When you’re grieving the loss of someone close, the last thing you want is to feel confused by all the different terms people use around end-of-life gatherings. Wake, viewing, funeral… aren’t they all the same? Not quite. While they share a common purpose—to honour a loved one who has passed—each has its meaning and role in saying goodbye.
At Wojcik’s Funeral Home, we know how important it is to understand your options. So, here’s a simple breakdown to help you make sense of it all:
Funeral Services
A funeral is typically the most formal type of farewell. It’s a structured ceremony where friends and family gather to pay their final respects. Often, a funeral includes a burial or entombment as part of the service.
There’s no one-size-fits-all approach here. Some funerals are deeply religious, others more secular. Some are large and traditional, others small and intimate. What matters most is that they reflect the life of the person being remembered.
Not sure what to wear? Unless told otherwise, lean toward conservative or formal clothing. It’s always better to be slightly overdressed than risk coming across as too casual.
What is a Viewing?
A viewing usually occurs before the funeral, sometimes the evening or several days before. This is a quieter, more personal time to see the loved one, offer condolences to the family, and reflect.
Viewings are often held at the funeral home, but occasionally occur in the family’s residence. If the person was cremated, an urn may be present instead of a casket.
You don’t need to stay for the entire duration—people tend to come and go. Just be sure to spend a moment with the family and share a memory. That alone can mean the world.
Understanding a Wake
The idea of a wake often brings up different images depending on who you ask. In Canada, wakes are still closely tied to Catholic tradition, and it’s not uncommon for a priest to lead prayers or say a few words. Think of it as a more religious version of a viewing, though in some families, a wake can feel more like a gathering or even a celebration of life.
Wakes are sometimes held at home rather than in a funeral home. Some cultures and communities can be lively, with food, drinks, stories, and laughter mixed in with the tears. But don’t expect a party—every wake is different. Just arrive with an open heart, dressed appropriately (unless told otherwise), and follow the family’s lead.
We’re Here When You Need Us
At Wojcik’s Funeral Home, we support families in Winnipeg with every type of ceremony—whether it’s a quiet viewing, a traditional Catholic wake, or a full-service funeral. Our role is to walk with you, step by step, through honouring your loved one in a way that feels right.
If you’re unsure which option fits best or have questions, don’t wait until the moment arrives. Reach out anytime. It’s always easier to make decisions with clarity and peace of mind ahead of time.
